Author : Cy Eberhart
It was the program at my service club's weekly luncheon meeting – a film, a simple film, really. No special effects, no musical crescendos, just a short filming about a man named Leo. It ended with most of us in deep thought. A bank president's summed up our collective thoughts."Do you get the feeling you haven't done as much with your life as you might?"Leo was a man in his 60's at the time of the filming – dwarfed and extremely 
 deformed. In fact, one of the most physically impaired persons I had seen. Even so 
 nothing in the film made you feel sorry for him. Rather you thought about yourself 
 and what you were doing with your life.The film showed Leo as a proud, independent owner of a one-man business, a 
 shopkeeper – of sorts. His shop was portable. It was a large, moveable case that 
 when opened, displayed his wares of sundry items such as pencils, writing paper 
 and the like.Leo lived on a farm with his uncle. An old hand-built combination wooden wagon 
 and scooter gave him mobility around the house and farm. Some years after he 
 reached manhood his mother died, and with the help of his uncle they outfitted a 
 tractor with a small crane. Each working day Leo struggled to board the tractor, 
 operate the crane to hoist his profitable business with its cart onto the tractor and 
 drive into the nearby town.He parked his rig on the street in the town's business district. Then he began his 
 arduous routine of opening for business. Aided by the crane he laboriously moved 
 his store from the tractor onto the sidewalk. Next he maneuvered himself onto his 
 cart and, using his feet, pushed up to the store. With gnarled fingers he patiently 
 removed the metal nuts from the bolts that held some of the wooden fixtures on the 
 front of the store crate.  Once loosed he rearranged the parts and  tightened the 
 nuts again. With that task done he used his feet to push himself and his cart up 
 onto the sidewalk and sat in front of his store. Open for business.  The display sign 
 on his cart read: "Satisfaction Guaranteed."Leo was a business man; the cart and container, his business establishment. 
 There on the sidewalk he sold his merchandise. To complete any transaction, he 
 spread his coins on a flat surface, and carefully counted the proper change for his 
 customers.  He would accept no more than a fair market price. An honest price for 
 honest service.Leo had been doing this for years, ever since his mother died. She had cared for him 
 and protected him from the harshness of the world.  But once on his own he wanted 
 to establish his independence. He was proud to be in business and frugal with his 
 earnings. He used part of it to pursue his life goal: "Helping those who were less 
 fortunate" than he.We watched the final scene with sorrow. It showed Leo driving his tractor 
 down the country road to his home after his day's work. But the sorrow we felt was 
 not for Leo, it was  for ourselves. The film turned our focus inward, and as a bank 
 president said at its conclusion, "It makes you wonder what you're doing with your 
 life?"The inspiration of Leo was not that he overcame a severe handicap, although 
 he certainly did that. But in watching him drive off into the distance, we knew we 
 were watching a man who had found life where it matters – within.  We knew there 
 was no substitute for that. If we don't find life within ourselves, we won't find it at 
 all.(c) Cy Eberhart 2006As a hospital chaplain Cy Eberhart, (now retired) was a firsthand witness to the 
 entire spectrum of human emotions: personal successes and failures; the deepest 
 despairs and the great peaks of joy. Two questions remained foremost in his mind: 
 How was it that some could find inner strengths that brought courage and hope and 
 others could not?  What was to be learned from these experiences that would have a 
 positive and creative effect for daily, routine living?His lectures, writings, workshops, book In the Presence of Humor and his living-history 
 performances of America's famed humorist 
 Will Rogers offers some of the 
 answers.
Keyword : happiness,well being,stress,self reflection,confidence,imagination,coping,insight,inspiration,persev
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