Author : Alan Allard
"Your Unconscious Mind, Skillfully DirectedCan And Will, Transform The 'Impossible'IntoThe PossibleAnd The PossibleIntoThe ProbableAnd The ProbableIntoYour Desired OutcomePeriod."Hello JoAnn,
I was sitting here thinking of the conversation we had the other day…about the powerful resource that we as human beings have in the unconscious mind, what some people refer to as the subconscious mind…Now, I have found that my unconscious mind continues to bring the subject of our conversation back into my conscious awareness, and I am getting back to you--to respond to some of your comments and questions about how we can skillfully use our unconscious mind… for our own good.Now, every day, my office is filled with clients that are quite successful in many ways, and I find that they all share a few things in common.Each one came to me wanting a better life for themselves, in every context of their life... and without robbing Peter to pay Paul! As you might imagine, my clients, and I'm sure yours as well, want to bring this about…with more ease and enjoyment than what they had previously known was possible.They desire to change something or dramatically improve something…and they come to me because doing so was simply eluding them, to one degree or the other. Perhaps what they desired, what they hungered for, was even considered by them to be "impossible."Earlier today, my writing was interrupted by a phone call from a successful attorney. We had an impromptu coaching session, focusing on how he could better use his unconscious resources. During this conversation, he revealed to me some hopes and dreams he had, that would require him to significantly increase his income. And as he was talking, he unconsciously and clearly communicated part of his belief system to me, when he said, "If I could even raise my income by 10% this year, that would be really nice."Now, what is going on here? A very successful attorney has reached the upper limits of his belief system… in a specific context. He had been operating from a belief system that seriously undercut his ability to go beyond his current income level.Now, to go beyond the limits he had been operating from would require that he adjust what is happening on the inside, primarily on the unconscious levels of his mind. It just so happens that this can be easily done in a multitude of ways, using some basic tools from NLP ™ or Human Performance Engineering. ™The Conscious Mind
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The Unconscious MindNow, what we call the mind, is quite interesting, is it not? What is the mind? We cannot touch our mind, or see it, as we can our brain. It is a word that we use to encapsulate something that is vital to our successful living. So, we have a mind, and I suppose one of the useful things for us to do with our minds, is to mind what is truly important in our lives.And in minding what is important in our lives, we do so on levels that I will describe as "conscious" levels and "unconscious" levels…or "less than conscious" levels, or perhaps "other than conscious" levels. The two ways that we use our mind, consciously and less than conscious, are both necessary and useful levels to operate from.It's not that we have two separate minds, by the way…we simply use our mind on both conscious and unconscious levels.Defining
"Conscious Mind…"
And "Unconscious Mind":Moving along, and so that we are on the same page, so to speak, let me define how I am using the various terms concerning how our mind operates.The conscious level is that level we operate from whenever we are consciously aware of something. The unconscious level encompasses everything else…Meaning, everything that you are not consciously aware of at this very moment.For instance, right now, you are aware of a few things on a conscious level and you are also aware of an unknown number of things on the unconscious level. I am, as well. For instance, right now, I am consciously aware of the feeling of the chair I am sitting in, as well as of the pleasant sound of the airplane flying over my office. I'm also consciously aware this moment of the sounds of others from outside my office.As I began to think about these things, a few other things came into my conscious awareness. Such as the feel of my fingers as they move across the keyboard . As well as my desire to pop in a music C.D.All of the things in the preceding paragraph were in the realm of my unconscious awareness…before they moved into the realm of my conscious awareness. This is the way it works as we paying attention to things consciously, and less than consciously, as we move through "time and space," in a manner that we call life.While thinking about this, it is helpful to recognize that the basic beliefs and values that drive most human beings emotionally and behaviorally, are learned on less than conscious levels. This being true…What Is The Most Effective WayTo Change Behavioral Patterns?Simply put, it is easier to effect change and create new emotional, mental and behavioral patterns…when done on less than conscious levels.When I work with clients on this level, I am able to bring about both remedial change and generative change. An example of remedial change would be to turn a smoker into a non-smoker, which is quite easy to do. Now, without minimizing the value of such a change, the point is that with remedial change, perhaps comparatively speaking, little else is greatly effected from that point on. A smoker can become a non-smoker, and that can be a remedial change or a generative change. If the new non-smoker uses that change upon which to build other changes, he has experienced a generative change. If he or she becomes a non-smoker and stops there, so to speak, the change would be remedial. A useful change, but stopping short of what could be.Generative change is that which generates additional change and improvement beyond the initial change. Take for instance, changing a belief such as, "changing this behavior is really difficult and will take a long time" to the belief of "I have not yet learned how to change this behavior easily and quickly." This new belief sets you up in a powerfully effective way to generate yet another useful belief, such as, "I am more than capable of changing this behavior. Now, if there is perhaps a deficit of skill, these beliefs further propel you to acquire the needed skills to effect the behavior change you desire.So, with generative change, the new behaviors and patterns continue to evolve and mature over time. And, they generate new improvements and become a solid foundation and environment for future change.So you can see, to coach my clients into the realm of their hopes and dreams, it is necessary that I teach them how to skillfully use their brain and their unconscious mind to seamlessly bring about change and improvement…Because…"Your Unconscious Mind Skillfully DirectedCan And Will Transform The 'Impossible'IntoThe PossibleAnd The PossibleIntoThe ProbableAnd The ProbableIntoYour Desired OutcomePeriod."The fact is, that when I work effectively from the realm of the unconscious to bring about change and improvement in a client, I can do so in a seamless and enjoyable fashion. How this is done, will be partially illuminated as we go along here. And I say partially, because, some things will be detailed in other writings, and some things have to be experienced to be better felt and understood.Take someone who desires, to one degree or the other, to improve their life in a specific context, or better yet, in all contexts…Or perhaps now, even you, desire to enhance your health…by lightening up, so to speak…or to get so much closer to a loved one, to even master a skill in a given domain, or to create a reservoir of financial abundance.Your Powerful And CapableUnconscious MindSimply put, it doesn't matter what your desired outcome is, your unconscious can bring it about in a more powerfully effective manner than your conscious mind can.Knowing this, I want to keep my conscious mind… out of the way of my unconscious mind! And therein lies the difficulty for so many, including myself at times. I say that, because, it seems that most human beings want to consciously understand and track almost everything!How We Can Unintentionally Delay Our Hopes And Dreams!And in their grasping for conscious understanding and certainty, they make having what they desire much more difficult. In so doing they often dramatically delay reaching and enjoying their hopes and dreams.Can you see how so many, even though well-intentioned, unnecessarily turn what could be a seamless and enjoyable process into an ordeal?! Because…The Conscious Mind
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